There are many worries about raising children, but if you don't forget important things, you will gradually move in the right direction.

First and foremost, all children, even those in rebellion, seek the love of their parents above all.

Of course, my parents are also humans, so I am frustrated at the terrible attitude of children in rebellion. In that case, take a deep breath for the time being.

Take a deep breath and exhale slowly.

This alone gives you a feeling of relief, so you don't have to deal emotionally.

In addition, some of the daily worries can be improved with a little effort.

For example, writing a series of actions to take after returning home, such as "gargling / hand washing, socks in the washing machine and homework", makes it easier to work by writing it down on a whiteboard and visualizing it.
 

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1. early childhood development programs how to get self-fulfillment skills

There are many worries about raising children, but if you don't forget important things, you will gradually move in the right direction. First and foremost, all children want the love of their parents above all.

Even a child in rebellion.

Of course, my parents are also humans, so I am frustrated at the terrible attitude of children in rebellion.

In that case, take a deep breath for the time being.

Take a deep breath and exhale slowly.

This alone gives you a feeling of relief, so you don't have to deal emotionally.

In addition, some of the daily worries can be improved with a little effort.

For example, writing a series of actions to take after returning home, such as "gargling / hand washing, socks in the washing machine and homework", makes it easier to work by writing it down on a whiteboard and visualizing it.

 

1-1.How to acquire self-fulfillment

In order for a child to acquire the power to open up the future, how to be involved with the child as a parent is very important.

The power to open up the future is unbeatable, but the most important thing is self-fulfillment.

Self-actualization ability is "the ability to find what you want to do and do it yourself".

From childhood, children who have been able to do what they want to do will acquire this power.

Self-directed experience develops self-fulfillment.

Most children today are overwhelmed by their parents.

Do this for your lessons, college is good here, that's good but this isn't ... In this way, a child who has been doing what he wants to do while suppressing what he wants to do is in a state where he says "do what he wants, but he can't find what he wants to do".

What happens when such a person becomes an adult and enters the company?

Leading companies in the developed world want to be proactive.

I'm not a smart person, a person with high deviation, or someone who can speak English.

I will do whatever you say!

Such a gear human is not required.

I want to do this! Therefore, we need people who can launch projects, who can present more and more, who can innovate.

This is because companies need radical change to survive.

“It's not the strongest or the most intelligent ones that survive, they can adapt to the environment,” as Darwin says.

However, it is not possible to become a person who can innovate simply by being done as a child.

People who can live their lives independently and have high self-fulfillment have a strong sense of self-affirmation.

Do more and more yourself, have guts, don't blame anyone else, take it for yourself.

Whether at work or private.

It's a fun life. Parents want their children to grow up like that.

I want them to support me so that my children can do what they want.

 

1-2.What to do if your child can't find what he can do

Children are vulnerable to information, so it is important for parents to make "introductions" and "recommendations."

Give priority to what your child might like, or what you like, to what your parents want you to do.

If you're interested in history, take it to the History Museum, if you like fish, go fishing, if you like games, do programming. But are children tired of playing?

If you get tired, please do not force it.

Gently give up and sell what you bought (laughs). Even if you get tired of it, you can increase the number of drawers.

And please do whatever you like and support us.

Supporting parents is a great help for children.

I will do various things, but it will not continue, if I quit I will quit and get stuck.

Don't think like that.

Such a quitting guise is an illusion, the values ​​of the Showa era.

Even if you quit 10 times, you might find something that you can really drive in the 11th time.

It may have been said that the current generation of parents will grow up being told that it will help them to endure and overcome hardships.

But that's not the time now.

Unlike the past, now you can learn anything easily and easily on the Internet.

It is full of opportunities to learn.

Do what you're interested in, and once you've got the point, go next.

So it's good. Rather than trying hard, try to have fun.

As Dragger says, we should grow our strengths rather than raising ourselves to the level of people.

 

1-3. Be patient when you are doing what you want

I may not continue because it is not what I really want to do.

I will endeavor to endure whatever hardships I like.

The idea that you can acquire patience and the ability to continue by earnestly doing things you don't like or don't suit you is also a big question.

You can continue to do it because it suits you and is fun to do, and that experience will develop your patience and sustainability.

Overall  
How about being part of giving your child a variety of experiences?
You will acquire many abilities necessary to live.

 

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